Inspiring Children to Lead Lives of Integrity, Service, and Commitment to the Greater Good

July 10, 2024

The Legacy of Phinehas and Phoebe

In a world where leadership is often equated with power and authority, the stories of Phinehas and Phoebe from the Bible offer timeless lessons on servant leadership. These two figures, though separated by centuries and contexts, embody the principles of dedication, selflessness, and zeal for God's commands. Their lives provide a model for how families can teach their children the true essence of leadership and serving others.

Phinehas: Zeal and Righteousness

Phinehas, the grandson of Aaron, is remembered for his zealous action in Numbers 25. During a period of moral and spiritual crisis among the Israelites, Phinehas took decisive action against sin and idolatry, which were threatening the community's covenant with God. By stopping the sinful behavior through a dramatic act of justice, he not only halted a devastating plague but also restored the community's relationship with God. His actions earned him God's commendation and a covenant of peace.

Phinehas' story teaches several key lessons:

• Courage in Upholding Values: Phinehas did not hesitate to act when he saw the community's values being compromised. His courage in upholding God's commandments, even at great personal risk, demonstrates the importance of integrity and righteousness.
• Zeal for God’s Honor: His zeal was not for personal glory but for the honor of God and the well-being of the community. This highlights the essence of true leadership as service to a higher purpose and the greater good.

Phoebe: Service and Support

Phoebe, mentioned briefly in Romans 16:1-2, was a deaconess of the church in Cenchreae and a benefactor to many, including the Apostle Paul. Paul entrusted her with delivering his letter to the Romans, indicating her reliability and esteemed position within the early Christian community.

Phoebe's life offers profound insights into servant leadership:

• Service Through Action: As a deaconess, Phoebe's role involved serving the needs of the community. Her designation as a "servant" or "minister" underscores the biblical view that leadership is fundamentally about serving others.
• Support and Hospitality: Phoebe’s role as a benefactor demonstrates the importance of providing support, whether through resources, hospitality, or encouragement. Her actions helped sustain and nurture the early Church, showcasing how behind-the-scenes support is crucial for the success of any mission.

Teaching Our Children

By teaching children about Phinehas and Phoebe, families can instill values of servant leadership from an early age. Here’s
how these lessons can be incorporated into family life:

• Courage and Integrity: Share Phinehas' story to emphasize the importance of standing up for what is right, even when it is difficult. Encourage children to develop a strong sense of integrity and moral courage.
• Service to Others: Highlight Phoebe’s dedication to service and support. Teach children that true leadership is about helping and uplifting others. Encourage acts of kindness, community service, and support for those in need.
• Zeal for a Higher Purpose: Use Phinehas' zeal for God’s honor to inspire children to pursue their goals with passion and dedication. Whether in faith, academics, or personal interests, teach them to commit wholeheartedly to their pursuits.
• Supportive Roles: Emphasize Phoebe’s role as a benefactor and the importance of supportive roles in any community or organization. Teach children the value of providing support, being reliable, and offering hospitality.

Phinehas and Phoebe exemplify servant leadership through their actions and dedication. Their stories offer powerful lessons for families looking to cultivate these values in their children. By learning about these figures, children can be inspired to lead lives of integrity, service, and commitment to the greater good. In a world that often celebrates power and authority, Phinehas and Phoebe remind us that the truest form of leadership lies in serving others with courage and humility.

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Lisa Bickus, CEO